Last week I sent out the first official email to the Book Club Members with the link to the introduction of my book! To be honest, it’s still pretty surreal and I’m learning so much about myself, my beliefs and the process so far.
The whole mindset and writing process in particular has been super interesting to me. For instance, I am finding that I have a bit more anxiety talking and sharing things about my “book” than I normally would with one of my programs or other offers. The book is something I’ve wanted to do for a long time and it sits pretty high on my dreams list, so it seems there’s a lot of extra anxiety and fear that goes with it.
The truth is, I’ve been having some wild thoughts like…
“I don’t know what the hell I’m doing. Maybe I should just let it go and try again another time. I’ve never written a book before! I’ve never shared the words for a book as I write them and oh my goodness what if it stinks!?“
As you know, I write and share words just about every day on Facebook, via email and here with you. So what’s the big deal? Nothing really. It’s just the meaning I am giving to the big pile of words that we call...the book.
Mindset 101: Nothing really “means” anything other than the meaning we give it.
So, of course the thing I need to do in this scenario is lean into the fear around this “book thing” and share more, talk about it more, invite you to join the book club more because when I do that, the fear loses its power.
Which is likely why I felt called to share a quote that comes straight from one of the chapters I’ll be sharing with the Book Club Members in May. (That and it’s a good one that some of you need right here, right now.)
If you’ve been feeling stuck lately or feel like you just aren’t cut out for the dreams and desires you hold so near and dear to your heart. This is for you.
“Sometimes, you just need to break the mold of who you were in order to step into who you came here to be in this world & do the damn thing.” (From what is currently Ch. 1 of my book)
It’s time to break the mold of who you were, what you believed, the choices you made and the things you’ve done because there’s so much more to your journey.
–>You came here to live fully by taking big scary leaps before you were completely “ready”.
–>You came here to show yourself how powerful, creative, talented and loved you truly are.
–>You came here to figure it out, find your way & show others how magical life can be.
And believe it or not, you came here to be happy, live a good life & shine your light in the collective world to help make it a better place.
So, if it feels like that’s not happening for you, it might be time for you to break the mold of who you’ve known yourself to be and lean into the new beliefs, actions and sometimes take scary leaps that will lead to a life beyond what you ever dreamed.
And let me add one more important thing here…
There’s never going to be a moment when the clouds part, the angels sing and you get a clear message from above that tells you this moment is the perfect moment for you to do ‘the thing’. Maybe that happens for 0.0000001% of people, but it doesn’t happen for the rest of us, so you just have to DECIDE.
Decide you’re going to finally do it.
Decide you’re ready enough to take that big scary step forward.
Decide that today is the day you are committing to the journey.
–>Yes, there will be days where it’s hard to believe and doubt kicks in…but there will be more and more days where you feel the vibe of what you are creating & see the signs that it is unfolding.
–>Yes, there will be moments when you feel like you are going no where…but there will also be moments when you can’t believe how quickly things shifted for you.
–>Yes, there will be times when you feel like it gets to work for everyone BUT you…and there will be more times when you KNOW this gets to work for everyone & you find yourself sharing magical stories with anyone who will listen.
This is a topsy-turvy-beautifully-chaotic-magical-miraculous-unexpected-blissful-expansive-journey that is life & it’s what we came here to do. It’s what YOU came here to do.
So, whatever your “book” is…whatever that thing is that you’ve wanted to be, have, and do for such a long time, but you keep getting in your own way about….it’s time to break your mold & move through it.
We can do it together or you can do it alone, there is no right/wrong way to do it, the key is to just do it…and keep doing it…and keep believing in the journey, the path and where you are headed because it is why you are here.
So, with that said let me share with you how I can help if you’re looking for support.
1:1 Mindset coaching: This is my signature program that helps you walk through your journey, clear the beliefs that have you stuck & help you create the experience that is even *better* than you thought possible. If you want a more hands-on approach this is definitely for you. Book your free consultation here.
Book Club Membership: This is my limited time membership I am hosting over the next 8 months where you get access to my book + monthly trainings + behind the scenes mindset lessons along the way. For more details + sign up links click here.
We are in a season of change & if you’ve decided it’s TIME for you to get support, let’s do it!