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You get to want what you want and you get to have it too…

This is a truth I invite you to own, embody and embrace even and especially if you don’t know “how” to make it happen.

The ‘how’ has a tendency to be the sticking point for so many people. If they don’t know “how” it can happen, they don’t believe it can. If they don’t see the way, they don’t allow themselves to trust that they can in fact create a life/business/relationship/career/financial situation they desire.

Yes…we all want what we want, but you know what we want more than that?

We want the map that shows us exactly how to make it happen.

The map, provides certainty. The map provides security. The step-by-step plan shows us that it has been done before and we can indeed do it again if we go through the motions of a prescribed formula. In a way, I suppose the idea of a “map” gives us a reason to believe we can reach our destination because we can see the whole path, speed bumps, detours, turns and all. 

But what if the map that we want, isn’t the map that we actually need?

What if there’s a better and more enjoyable way of going about getting to where we desire to be? (Spoiler alert…there is!)

When I first started this business, I wanted nothing more than for someone to show me exactly what to do in order to be successful. I’m talkin’ a playbook for success that outlined the step-by-step process to posting, sharing, creating content etc. Tell me what to do, when to do it and how often and I promise I will be 100% on it!  

I wanted it all because surely there had to be something I was missing. And while I did *try* many ways, paths, formulas and step-by-step plans for success that others had used, it didn’t work for me….ever.

The reason? It didn’t work for me because what I wanted was not in fact what I actually needed.  What I needed was someone who could help me focus on my desires and get out of the mess in my mind. 

What I needed was someone who could help me trust myself and my path. 

That is not to say I didn’t need to learn things about mindset, sales, marketing and business etc. Of course I needed (and still need) support as I go to the next level. I am always learning, growing and evolving, but what I’ve learned is that the “how” is less about having a clearly defined map to get to my destination and more about trusting myself, my intuition and feeling my way forward.

And that’s exactly what I am here to teach you. 

You don’t need to find the one map, strategy, plan, or step-by-step process to get to where you are going. You just need to understand how to clean up the mess in your mind so you can FEEL your way forward.

YOU know the way. Your intuition is constantly guiding you, leading you and inviting you to engage with the magic and wonder of this life. It’s bringing you incredible experiences you couldn’t have ever planned and chance meetings that are so incredible you couldn’t have orchestrated them yourself. 

Your intuition/higher self is asking you to play in this thing called life as you get rid of the idea that there is only ONE way for you to live and ONE thing you came here to do. (All of that is utter BS.)

You came here to do the things (all the things) that light you up. You came here to laugh in excitement as pieces fall into place more easily than you ever thought possible.

You came here to stare in awe and amazement at the fun sequence of events that led you to where you’ve always wanted to be because the journey getting there was beyond your wildest imagination. 

You came here to live and enjoy life…period.

You don’t need a map…you ARE the map. 

Your feelings, nudges, inklings and emotions are leading you constantly and consistently toward your desires when you are attuned to and focused on them. And when you learn to trust yourself, true magic unfolds. 
The truth is…there are an infinite number of fun, flowy, magical and miraculous ways for you to get what you want out of life, so why box yourself into just one? 

There’s so much more to your life that is waiting for you and if you’re like many people…you’re overthinking it. You’re questioning the thoughts, leaps, and steps that pop into your mind instead of just doing them. You’re riding the fence because the next step feels too scary, too easy or too hard and you’re just not quite sure if *this* is the thing that is going to ultimately get you to where you want to be.

Friends, I’m here to tell you it’s time to trust yourself. Commit to the dream/desire/goal and then go do what you feel called to do. You learn to swim by getting in the pool and it’s time for you to jump in.

Action step:

Take a moment right now and write down 10 things you can do that you’ve been thinking about, pondering or feeling the call to do and then commit to doing at least one or two today. Send me a msg and let me know what action you are taking today.

P.S. If you are ready to jump in with both feet and get support getting out of your head and into the life you came here to create, say yes and book your chat here for next week and let’s make it happen!  

Food for thought for your Friday…

If you feel like you’re waiting for your life to change or you’re waiting for the Universe to send you some sort of break, sign or signal so you can move forward on your path, this message is for you.

What if what you *think* you’re waiting for isn’t actually what you need?

What if it’s less about waiting for the Universe to drop a sign or a nudge for you to follow and it’s more about YOU moving forward so the Universe can meet you on the path?

If you are the creator of your own reality (and you are), then you *must* know that you have the power to move and make magic happen without having to wait for some special bat signal from the sky. 

You always have a choice to make and a step to take in order to move in the direction of what you desire and sometimes the biggest thing holding you back is the mess in your mind that questions whether your action, thought or next step is too small or too insignificant. 

I’ve got news for you…nothing is too small or insignificant to count. 
It all counts. It all adds up.

You see, most people who feel stuck and stagnant aren’t feeling that way because they don’t necessarily know what to do. Most people feel stuck because they don’t trust the thoughts that come up about the actions they can take. 

They question, analyze and overthink every tiny detail of what they feel called to do next. In their minds it doesn’t connect to the big picture of limitless abundance and everlasting joy, but friends that’s how and where the miracles show up!

They show up when *YOU* show up and do something.

Do what you know to do. Do what you feel called to do whether it makes logical sense and you see how it connects to your deeper desire or not. 

Say the thing, write the email, make the phone call, offer your help, ask the question, go for the drive, apply for the job, say yes to the opportunity, sign up for the call or whatever else you have been feeling to do and then do the next thing after that.

You are not stuck.
You are not stagnant.
You are not off your path at all.

And you most certainly aren’t waiting for the Universe to send you a sign in order to take the next step…in fact, the Universe is waiting for you.

Let life meet you in your movement and watch as the magic and miracles you just can’t make up unfold for you.

 
You know that thought that’s been nudging at you that maybe you’ve been resisting? Do it.
You know that thing you’ve been going back and forth on over and over again? Do it.
You know those seemingly simple things that don’t feel important? Do them too.

It’s all connected. It’s all part of the path and your plan to get to where you are going. So just do it already. 

Start now.

Take a moment to jot down 3 things you know you can do to move forward on your path..then do them and do your future self a favor and get out of your own way. 

Life is waiting for you to move so it can connect you with the magic and miracles that will inevitably connect you to your deepest desires.

Don’t believe me? Try it and report back on what happens. I can’t wait to hear about it.

I’ve got a new video for you today with some golden nuggets and kick ass coaching that you need. This is somewhat of a theme I’ve been seeing and hearing in various client calls recently and you know that means I *must* share it with you. 

Whether you realize it or not you likely are doing something that is killing your dreams, desires and vision before it’s even begun…find out what it is below. 

Check it out!

As Abraham-Hicks says…you can’t get there from there so why don’t we just cut it out altogether. How about instead of assuming the worst, we expect the best?

How about we put our mind to work *for* us instead of against us..yeah?

Chances are pretty high that you have been doing this in some area of your life and this is your sign to cut it out. Whatever you want…you can create it, you can achieve it, and you can receive it but you MUST stop with all the reasons it’s not going to work out…why it hasn’t worked out…etc. 

Mindset is all about choosing the most helpful, supportive, uplifting thoughts and beliefs possible and one of my clients reminded me (thank you K!) that sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know.

Sometimes you’ve been thinking one way for so long that you don’t know what language to use or words to say to paint a new picture and create a new outcome. Sometimes you just don’t know *how* to think in possibilities and potentialities because your life has been so different…but you can learn!

That’s where a good practice (and ahem coach) comes in.

If you’ve been talking yourself out of your desires before you even get started it’s time to chat.

If you want to create a different outcome for your life & you’re ready to do the inner work to create the outer magic…it’s time for us to chat.

Support goes a long way in this work & I promise you won’t be sorry you took the leap. What’s the absolute *BEST* outcome you can think of? Let’s create it together!

In case you missed I started a new series on Youtube where I share little coaching nuggets that have been inspired by some of my 1:1 sessions. Check out the first installment below and make sure you like and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing!

As always, if you are interested in chatting about how coaching can help you in getting out of your head and into the life you love, book your free consultation HERE. I’d love to chat with you!