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Quick energy tip you might be missing…

You already know you need to think thoughts in alignment with what you desire & take action too.

But did you know that to really call it all in so it comes TO you that you also need to do this?

Prepare to receive it.

“Wait…what do you mean Lamisha? I’m ready. I’ve been ready!”

I didn’t say get ready…I said prepare to receive it. Like…it’s done. It’s coming.

It’s like a visitor that just told you they will be there in a few hours & while you KNEW they were coming, you didn’t think they were going to be there so soon. Omg…you’re not prepared!!

Here are a few examples for calling in…

More money...Do you have a plan for its purpose? Do you know where it’s going & what you’re doing with it when it arrives? 

More clients…Do you have your schedule set up for that? Are you already working in a way that allows you to be efficient & serve your people accordingly?

The house or move…Do you have all your paperwork in order? Have you cleared the clutter so when it’s time to pack up you’re ready to roll?

A new relationship…Are you focused on you right now? Pouring into yourself, healing the old wounds & taking the absolute best care of you now?

If you knew your “thing” was going to arrive in the next few weeks, how would you need to prepare yourself & your life today, in order to receive it? <—Then go do that!

Treat it like it’s inevitable.

It’s done & the when/how don’t matter because it’s a done deal.

Live in that knowing.
BE in that energy.
DO the things you’d be doing to prepare NOW.

Stop waiting for “the thing” or the signs for it to come in order to prepare your mind & life to receive it.

Big things are coming & it’s time to prepare. Get on my calendar & book your consultation to become magnetic AF so all the things you’ve been wanting come to YOU.

Got limiting beliefs? I have just the thing to help you clear them, but first let me tell you about what clearing these beliefs can do for you. A few days ago, I got a message out of the blue from my past client Lisa & what she shared blew my mind.(See her message below.)

She said she felt compelled to reach out and share a quick update on where she is now & to let me know how much my work matters.
 

After working on her mindset & clearing the limiting beliefs that had her stuck…

Lisa has now incorporated her business & is projected to make $330k in her first incorporated year. She hired 4 employees, is getting back to her fitness routine & has fallen in love!

Like I say about all of my clients…SHE did that.  It all started with a commitment to do the thought shifting work that I teach every day. In fact, these results started with a simple 21-day experiment to clear the limiting beliefs to be exact. I know it sounds crazy, but it’s true.

Before you let your brain talk you into believing all the reasons this same kind of thing can’t work for you too because…

I’ve tried it all & nothing works!
I’m not good enough to do something like that!
I don’t know how!
That can’t possibly happen for me!

Know this…
 

The very thoughts that are stopping you from doing this work & believing it gets to work for you too, is the REASON you need to do it. 

Everything you want lies on the other side of those limiting beliefs & if Lisa can do it, YOU can do it too. But, it’s up to you to make the decision to say yes to the work.

Start now with the SAME 21-day experiment that Lisa used to clear her limiting beliefs or book a free strategy call to get a simple 3 part process so you can start creating the life you want NOW. Want to create more abundance, find love or transition your career? It’s all available for you. You just have to say yes. Let’s go!

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I don’t know what to do…-I’m going to tell you what I told a client recently & listen, I’m going to give it to you straight. Knowing *what* to do isn’t your problem.

Your problem lies in the battle with procrastination, perfectionism, imposter syndrome & all the doubts that come up day after day.

But…I don’t know what to do!

You know what to do, you’re just not doing it.

OR you’re doing it & believing it couldn’t possibly work because who the hell are you to show your face, take up space & share your art/thoughts/business/thing with the world?!

I’ll tell you who you are…

You’re a woman who is here with a purpose to do more than just “survive” life, pay bills & die.

You’re ready to break out of the life that feels two sizes too small & while it might scare the shit out of you to admit…YOU want MORE.

More purpose, passion, creativity & dare I say…joy?

You want it & it’s time to make it a reality…starting NOW.

I don’t normally tell you what to do, but I’ll make this one exception.

You really want to change your life starting right now?

Get on my calendar now. I’ll share my 3 part strategy so you’ll know exactly what to do to change your life. Did I mention it’s free? Let’s go!

Listen, it ain’t gonna launch itself. Let’s go.

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I just want to brag on my client K for a moment & give you a just little glimpse of what is possible for you when it comes to your 2023 goals. Listen, this woman is kicking ass and taking names.

She came to me to reinvent herself & her life post divorce & let me tell you, she’s done that & so much more.

She’s not only gave herself ample time to rest & heal, but she bought a house, started (& is sticking to) her fitness routine, is working on a new product to bring to market, is using her voice, setting boundaries & feeling better about herself every damn day.

While we are celebrating every one of those 2023 goals today, I want you to know that, every single thing on that list felt hard, if not impossible before she did it. And yes some things still feel a little challenging from time-to-time but she’s doing it!

• When we first spoke about her finding AND buying a house just for her, she scoffed.
• When we discussed using her voice & setting boundaries she didn’t think she was ready.
• When we first talked about her desire to go to the gym regularly, she wrinkled her nose & probably rolled her eyes because it always felt hard & she could never stick to it.

But she’s done it all because every week she showed up for herself willing to play in the possibilities of her new beliefs.

She didn’t believe all those things could happen before, but now she sees what this belief work can do.

She was fed up with where she was & was willing to do something different to change it.

What she did…

She showed up for herself consistently & every week we shifted her beliefs just a little bit more & the results of that work showed up faster than she thought possible.

She does the work even when it feels hard & I couldn’t be more proud of how far she’s come. (I also can’t wait to see her on Shark Tank because mark my words, it’s coming.)

As always,I share this with you because, I want you to know that this work will work for your 2023 goals too.

Whether you too are reinventing yourself after divorce, retirement or you’re just feeling antsy in life because you know there has to be more to life than what you’ve been living.

I want you to know there is more & I can help you not only find it, but make that (& so much more) happen for you. 

The process isn’t complicated. All you have to do is be willing to do things a bit differently than you have & try on some new beliefs to get to where you want to be. 

You can keep doing what you’ve always done or you can take a chance & invest in getting support to finally  DO the damn thing. Whether that’s checking published author off of your bucket list or finally start that Etsy business you can’t stop thinking about.

It’s time to do it. I can help. Why are you waiting? 

Book your consultation—> so I can share YOUR story 6 months from now.

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In order to create the “more” you are looking for in life, it’s critical to manage your mindset & energy…here’s how you do that. 

When things are going really well…

Mindset: Practice the thought “This is normal. This is my new normal.” This activates new thought patterns around what is “normal” & comfortable for you so you can create more of the same in the future. The more you get comfortable with this new level of norm, the easier it is to create again.

Energetically: Focus on grounding into the neutral/normal feeling of “of course”….this is just how life works out for me. Anchor in the energy of the moment. Let your emotional body get super comfortable & secure in this potentially “new” space. Breathe into it & allow it to be your new set point. Again, this creates a sense of safety in your nervous system when things are good & you’re less likely to sabotage as things continue to get better & better.

When things aren’t going as well…

First,…feel the feels always. You cannot bypass the feelings phase of the process. You can try to, but know that they will always come back up. Feel the feelings as & don’t make them “wrong”.

Energetically: Anchor in the feeling of sufficiency/safety by creating a safe space for your nervous system to regulate. This is going to take some practice & trial/error because most of us haven’t been taught to properly regulate our nervous systems. So try things like…meditation, getting outside, cold showers, ice bath/water on the face, EFT tapping, deep breathing, grounding yourself etc. There are many ways to soothe your body so find what works for you & do it. Remember, you need to soothe the body before you set the mind. 

Mindset: When (and only when) your nervous system has been regulated, you can begin to invite new thoughts. Practice thoughts like “Huh…isn’t that interesting. I wonder what this is trying to teach me?” You can also challenge yourself to look at how this situation (as disappointing & frustrating as it might be) is setting you up for something better. Make a list of how it’s still working out for you. 

Another good question to ask is “What do I choose for this to mean to/about me?” You might choose to see that lay off as an opportunity to take the leap into your own business while you look for work in the interim etc. Find the thought/belief that provides an opening to better and better thoughts/feelings. 

These practices not only help you manage your mindset & feel better overall, but it takes you off the roller coaster ride of highs & lows depending on your circumstance.

Listen, circumstances of your life are ALWAYS going to be in flux. And yes, you are likely going to have some thoughts and feelings about them, but it doesn’t mean they have to determine your beliefs.

Book your consultation below & I’ll walk you through my 3 part process to manage the mind drama so you can get your children’s book on the ‘just released’ table at Barnes & Noble…or whatever it is you want to do! Let’s go!