Lamisha Serf-Walls

Update + A few of my FAVORITE things

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Hey Friends!!

It’s been a pretty busy few weeks and I am SO excited to share an update with you of some exciting things that I’ve been working on and other things to come in 2017.

First, let me say that I am TOTALLY pumped about the fact that we are officially in planning mode and I am waiting anxiously for the last blissful week of the year that I have officially deemed my “planning time” to dig into my goals, projections, and intentions for the year ahead.

If you don’t know this by now, I LOVE all of the newness that comes with a new week, month, and the ultimate new year and while I have absolutely zero plans of going out partying to ring in 2017 in a few weeks, I am still super pumped with what’s to come.

Every year around this time, I get really excited about receiving one of my FAVORITE planners of all time- Leonie Dawson’s Create Your Shining Year planners.  She has been creating these beautiful pieces of art to help wildly creative and soulful souls like me, set intentions, get clear on what you want to create and embrace in the new year and this year’s edition is GORGEOUS!

In fact, I was so excited about getting these that when she launched the pre-sale option in the summer, I jumped at the chance to get these little gems in my hand sooner rather than later.  Now, to be honest, I have yet to crack them open and dig in (that’s what the last week of the year is really going to be used for), but I have been thumbing through them and I couldn’t wait to share these with you!

A few of my favorite bits in these beauties:

  • She has 2 versions! A Life & Biz planner so if you are just getting started with all this intention stuff and you don’t have a business, no worries- snag the LIFE Planner and be on your way
  • The added desk diary!  She added this piece last year and I have to say that I’ve NEVER managed to use the same calendar/diary for an entire year until I used this one.  It comes fully equipped with a gratitude section, goal setting for each month, money goals and extra doodling space.
  • 100 Things to do in 2017!  In each of the planners you can create a list of 100 things you want to do in that year.  There’s no thing too big or small to include here so think of it as your individual annual bucket list if you will.  I always have a ton of fun coming up with new things I’ve never done before.  So cool!
  • Lots of lists!  In addition to the 100 things list, there are also sections for books you want to read, new things you want to try, ways to shift/change your body, mind, and soul and so much more.  She really includes all kinds of fun stuff.
  • It’s totally balanced!  I love how Leonie really focuses on balance for your life.  While I lean more toward the business planner, both have a wide variety of topics in the life version including creativity, soul, mind, body, family, relationships, finances, and home.  The business version includes sections for finances, creating a shining team, systems, boundaries, education, customers, marketing etc.

So, I think it’s safe to say these beauties are by FAR my favorite planners.  I’ve used them consistently over the last 3 years in my business and I plan on continually purchasing them.

If you know anything about the MOST successful people around the world you know that they set goals, measure them, focus on them, and have some sort of system in place to set their intentions to begin with.  THIS is my secret weapon and I’m sharing it with you!

I highly recommend these to my clients and am currently offering a special bonus for anyone who purchases them through my affiliate link.  By doing so, I may receive a small commission and YOU get free entry into my 2017 Vivid Visioning course starting in January.

The truth is I love these planners and if you are in my tribe, I know you will too so take a look and grab yours NOW before they are all sold out!

Order by December 15th and get yours by Christmas.

Order by the 20th and get your BONUS 2017 Vivid Visioning program FREE!

 

Check out the Create Your Shining Year Planners Here

Ready to change your life? (Read this.)

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If you’ve never had a session with me, you may not know that during my calls with clients I am totally in the zone.  I’m asking questions, taking notes, and sharing insights and nudges I get from my intuition.  (Of course if you asked me ‘how’ I do what I do, I wouldn’t have an answer for you.  I just do it.)

Many times, amazing gems fly out of my mouth before I ever realize just how profound it is and last week I happened to catch this amazing wisdom I’m going to share with you today.

I was having a chat with one of my clients who is making some massive shifts in her mindset, career, and life in general and last week she was bumping up against her fear of the unknown.

With questions popping up all over the place like: “What if it doesn’t work out?  How can I be sure? But what if I fail?” (and many more), I asked her a question that changed everything.

It may not be a question you’ve thought to ask yourself, but here it is:

Are you willing to give up the HOPE of what can be, in order to stay in the discomfort of what is?

Basically, are you willing to stay where you are (even if you are uncomfortable, frustrated, pissed off, and just down right tired), in order to avoid the fear and incidentally the hope of what may be?

If so, then I can tell you exactly what will happen for you in the next 6 months (and I don’t need any oracle cards for this one).  You will stay exactly where you are because you are allowing FEAR to lead the way.

You see….

CHANGE happens when you are willing to take the next step forward and ACT on the inspiration you receive.

CHANGE happens when you exchange your frustration, anger, and discomfort for HOPE & the knowing that YOU have the power to create the life you desire.

CHANGE does not happen by you staying the same, being the same, and refusing to take responsibility of your future to make change happen.

Ouch!  (That’s some tough stuff to swallow, but you need to hear this.)

Where you are today and what has happened in your past is not your FAULT, but it is your responsibility TODAY to make a change if you want to see a different future.

YOU (and only you) are responsible for making the decision to leap.
YOU (and only you) are responsible for taking the next step, seeking support, investing in yourself (when needed) and doing the work to make your life what you want it to be.
YOU (and only you) are responsible for shifting your mindset and setting the wheels in motion for magic to unfold in your life.
YOU (and only you) get to make that decision.  Today and forever more.

So what do you choose?

Are you more fond of the fear that has gotten you nothing but the same, uncomfortable results or are you willing to take the leap (whatever that looks like for you) and do something different?

The truth is, you know where fear will lead you, but do you know where HOPE will lead?  I’ll tell you where.  To an amazing world of possibilities, opportunities, and CHOICES.

Believe me when I say this..I’ve been on both sides of the tracks and the HOPE side is much more comfortable.

Sure, there are times when I am really afraid of moving forward and my ego tries to convince me to stay in the cozy comfort of sameness, but the expanded part of me knows better, so I leap.  Consistently.  I walk my talk and own up to the work I teach because this shit works!

I’m sharing all of this with you because I don’t want you to move into the new year (it’s coming up pretty fast and furious) doing the SAME things over and over again with zero results.  You deserve better than that, and it’s time to step into the KNOWING of what WILL be versus the “fear” of what has been.

If you are ready to step into CHANGE with purpose, vision, and hope here are a few things you can do to get you started.

  • Make a list of 20 things you can do NOW to move you forward out of sameness and into the life you want to live.
  • Set a goal to do at least 1-2 things from that list each week from not until the end of the year (and beyond)
  • Shake things up!  Do something that is totally out of the norm for you to shake up your creativity and inspiration.  You never know what may come from it.
  • Invest in your personal development (when appropriate) with a coach, course, program, or books that will stretch your thinking and being.
  • Get an accountability buddy.  In addition to the coach I just started working with, I have a few mindset and accountability buddies I connect with almost daily.  It makes a huge difference.
  • Above all else, make a commitment to YOURSELF that you are worthy and deserving of creating change in your life.  It’s so important and goes a long way!

Last, but not least-I encourage you to sign up for my 2017 Cards & Coaching offer that is available for another 24 hours.  This is an incredible opportunity for you to get the inside scoop on what you can do starting now to pave the way for 2017 being the best year yet for just $111!!

It includes:
✨ 1-Oracle Card Reading (via email with pictures of the cards) that will provide insight into where you are now and how to use your intentions and energy to start 2017 strong.
✨ 1-45 Minute Coaching Session with me to clear the most prominent block that is holding you back as we head into 2017.

Your investment: $111 (love that magical number & it’s over 50% off what the regular rate would be!)

Interested?  Just click the image below and snag yours before time runs out (I guarantee I won’t be doing this again. )

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7 Things I’m Afraid to Tell You…

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photo credit: Elf-8 Non no nej via photopin (license)
photo credit: Elf-8 Non no nej via photopin (license)

 

A few years ago, I came across a blog post by another coach titled “Things I’m Afraid to Tell You”. 

At this point, I can’t remember who that was, but I was intrigued by the concept and shared a few things with my tribe that I too was afraid to share and today I’m doing it again.

It’s always incredibly important to me that I be 100% honest and real with you because after all, I am only human.  You may read some of these and find that I am no longer a coach you want to follow or find that I am exactly the kind of coach you want to be a part of your life.  Either way, I know it’s all for the best.

So, without further ado (and more procrastinating) here we go!

  • I just pulled the plug on the 60-Day Momentum Mastermind.  – You know that new blended program I put together and announced last week that was supposed to begin on Monday?  Yep, I pulled the plug.  The truth is, it was something I have been wanting to do for a long time (create a blended program), but something didn’t feel quite right about it.  So, instead of trying to revive it in some way, I’m pulling the plug.  There is a part of me that is slightly embarrassed, yet also incredibly relieved about it because it frees up a bit more time for me to do something else. (More on that soon.)
  • I’m afraid of what you think of me.  There are times when I really overthink what I want to say to you because my intention is never to offend you or rock the boat.  There are times when I wonder if I’m “selling” too much and creating too many offers and I wonder what you might think of me because of it.  (On a deep level, I guess I just want to be liked.)  But, then I remember why I am in business to begin with.  I love what I do (most of the time) and if I am creating offers (or pulling the plug) there is a very good reason for it and who am I to keep that from YOU, especially if it’s something that could help you?  This is also the reason I was hesitant to share an article I wrote on race that was recently published on ElephantJournal.
  • Sometimes I get bored with my business.  Now let me be clear, I am NEVER bored with the people I work with…ever.  But, there have been times (ahem-recently) when I have felt a bit bored with myself and my business.  I am the type of person that likes to shake things up and get really excited about new things I am offering in general and if it’s feeling a bit stagnant, my inspiration goes down the tubes and I have to regroup and reset myself.  The truth is, I’ve been feeling that way for a bit now and I’m just itching to bring in some fresh new energy to shake things up.  (Again, more on that later.) To be clear, I LOVE what I do, I love who I work with, but sometimes I don’t love the way I do things, so I have a need to switch it up.
  • Sometimes I don’t feel like “enough”.  When my mind-gremlins start kicking up, I get so stuck in my head about things that I start believing the crappy thoughts that come up and I feel like I’m not enough.  Not smart enough, strong enough, clear enough, good enough, blah, blah, blah.  Most recently, I felt like I wasn’t a good enough mother.  I’m human.  Sometimes these are quiet thoughts in the back of my mind and other times they can take me to my knees and make me cry uncle, but I always come out the other side stronger, because I know that this is just another part of the up-leveling process for me.
  • I am a lesbian.  I realize that many of you know this about me already and it shouldn’t even be a “thing”.  I get that, but I’d be lying to you if I told you that even after being ‘out’ for close to 15 years now (plus being married to the woman of my dreams and having a family too) that there isn’t a part of me that worries what other people might think of me because of this fact.  I also realize that for some people, this is an utter and total deal-breaker.  (There is an unsubscribe button at the bottom of this email, should this be a deal-breaker for you.  No hard feelings at all and I wish you all the love in the world.) Moving on…
  • I am a card-carrying (not really) woo-woo coach & intuitive.  All this means is that I am deeply in touch with my intuition (something we all have) and I am able to feel into the circumstances, energy, and “stuff” that clients have going on pretty easily.  It’s my super-power an while it’s not something I try to explain (and to be honest, most of my clients don’t really ask) it’s 100% how I work.  I also often use oracle cards with clients and occasionally will offer to do readings for people if that’s something they are into.  (If that’s something you’re interested in let me know because I LOVE doing them.). The truth is, all of this spiritual and “woo-woo” stuff makes me the coach I am and it helps me, help you.
  • Sometimes, life gets the best of me.  Basically what that means is that there are times when I need to retreat, regroup, rehash, revive, and refresh my mind so I can show up and be the best for you.  It is often accompanied by general shit going on in my personal world (like this past month my wife had surgery, Mercury Retro gave me a run for my money, and I was totally off of my mindset practice.) that takes me off track.  For the most part, I don’t like to share too much of that with you because, well-who likes to talk about that stuff?  I mean, it’s the stuff that makes me relate-able, and human I suppose, but it’s just not fun to share.  That, and part of me doesn’t want you to think less of me because of it.  (I’m also a recovering, perfectionist.)

So, I guess that’s it for this round and honestly it wasn’t as bad as I thought it might be.  I expect there may be some people who leave my tribe because of one or more of what I listed above and to you I wish you all the best.

For those of you who are sticking around-I’m so happy for you to be here!  Stay tuned because the next email you receive from me is SO exciting and you don’t want to miss it!!!

P.P.S. If you LOVE being a part of my tribe and you’ve been wanting to work with me 1:1 (and you aren’t currently), hit reply to this email OR sign up for a free 30-minute consultation and I’ll give you the inside scoop on this very-super-secret-squirrel-crazy thing I’m cooking up that I’ll be announcing to the public in a few days.

Mindset is everything, even when it comes to money

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Happy Monday!!!

Let’s just call today Money Monday shall we?

It’s been awhile since I last posted because I’ve been totally blown away by the magic that is happening inside the Free Money Mindset Masterclass that I ran last Thursday!  (If you don’t know what I’m talking about and you’d like to check out the replay, join us here. )

That 90 minute call is total GOLD (if I do say so myself).  There were so many amazing insights that were happening for the participants on the call and I couldn’t be more happy about the shifts that have occurred afterwards.  I keep seeing messages about how the way everyone is thinking about money has completely shifted and they now KNOW that they can create more abundance in their lives.

But, that’s not the best part.  The best part is when I received the email from a participant not even 24 hours AFTER the call saying she had 4 potential clients reach out to her seemingly out of the blue.  I wish I could say I don’t believe it, but I totally do.

These are the kinds of miracles that happen when you shift your mindset around money.  Remember, mindset is everything when it comes to anything so why would money be any different?  It’s not!

Want a quick way to check in with how your money mindset is?  Do these three things.

  • Check in with yourself and see how you FEEL about money.
  • Look at your bank account balances (checking, savings, retirement etc.)
  • Take a look at your total debt balance

Now, if when you check in with yourself and you feel anxious, worried, stressed, overwhelmed, fearful etc., then I HIGHLY recommend you check out the Masterclass.  However, if things feel good and money is flowing to you in buckets, keep doing what you’re doing unless…your debts are high and you are avoiding looking at things.  That’s a sign there is some mindset work to be done as well.

Another great way to check in to see where your money mindset is, is to finish the sentence below and see what comes up.

“Money is….”

If you came up with words like…

  • Scarce
  • Evil
  • Not enough
  • Annoying
  • Stupid
  • A pain in my ass (or something similar)

Then, you may want to check out the Money Mindset Masterclass. 

I’ll be honest, I’ve been having so much fun in that group answering questions and helping the participants get clear about their money beliefs that I didn’t want it to stop there (and honestly neither did they). So, I’m taking this work a bit deeper for those who are interested in joining us!

Money-MindMasterclass

Starting September 5th we will be embarking on an experiential journey into your Money Mindset to create a higher vibration and knock out the money-limiting beliefs that have had you stuck for far too long.  It’s going to be a full 21-days of insights, releasing, high vibrating, magic and wonder and you will experience some truly amazing miracles.

Here are the details:

This is a 21 day intensive program starting September 5th that includes:

$$ 14 Days of exercises to shift and expand your money mindset
$$ Practical tips to open you up to receive and manifest more money
$$ 1 BONUS week for Integration & Support
$$ Private FB group with LIVE coaching/Q & A sessions throughout the entire 21 days
$$ 21 Days of Abundance Expansion & Money Miracles!

I’ll also be creating some added bonuses to use throughout including a money meditation, guided visualization, and journaling prompts to help you further expand your money mindset on an ongoing basis.

Your Investment:

Regular Program: $88

VIP Option (includes a 45-minute session valued at $250): $188

So, if you are ready to manifest some amazing money miracles, unexpected abundance, and mindset shifts that will change your life forever, I invite you to join us!

Got questions?  Post them in the comments below and I’ll be sure to answer them!

Do YOU have a Money Mind???

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photo credit: UK Pounds Sterling and US Dollar banknotes via photopin (license)

 

I am so excited to spill the beans about this FREE event I’ve been cooking up for you.

As you may know, we just wrapped up the latest round of the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program and I have mindset on the brain big time right now!

In fact, as we were finishing the final few weeks of the program, I realized one thing that holds SO many people back from living the life they desire (and to be honest, it held me back for WAY too long) is something I haven’t ever really talked about.

It’s been such a huge part of my journey and yet, I’ve been pretty hush-hush about it until now.  To be honest, I suspect it’s because I have my own blocks around talking about it openly, even though it is something I work with about 90% of my clients on in some way.

What is it???

$$ MONEY $$

Now, just looking at the word can be enough to give people anxiety and stress.  Money is a word that brings up a multitude of emotions depending on your current relationship with it right?

Do me a favor right now and check in with your own emotions.  When you think about money, what do you feel?

Excited?
Anxious?
Worried?
Curious?
Scared?
Terrified?

I’ve felt all of those emotions and then some!  In fact, for most of my life I struggled to even think about money in any positive way.

To be honest, I didn’t like it, didn’t trust it, I never had enough, and I thought that’s the way it was always going to be.  In my mind it was just a fact of life.

I grew up to believe that money was hard to make, difficult to keep, and believed that if I got a ‘good job’ and worked really hard, I might eventually get ahead, but it wasn’t likely.

Talk about a shitty money mindset!  (It’s no wonder I always lived paycheck-to-paycheck and had a mountain of debt no matter how much money I made.)

Turns out, I was actually CREATING the lack in my life by what I thought.  Back then, I had no idea what mindset work was and never once considered that I had any control over the situation.  Other than working multiple jobs (which I did for many years) of course.

I didn’t know what I didn’t know. 

I wanted more money, but didn’t know how to make it happen.
I craved more adventure, but didn’t have the money to make it happen.
I hated my job, but felt bound by the pittance I was receiving because…hey a girl’s gotta eat!

It wasn’t until I began to really embrace this whole professional development work that I learned I had more control than I realized and it all started with what I THOUGHT.

My money journey has evolved over the years and each year I up-level my belief system around money, my income increases.

I’ve gone from working multiple jobs to (barely) make ends meet, to working in my own business (doing what I love) and doubling my income in the last year.

I’ll be completely honest, I’m not nearly where I’d like to be, but I’m a hell of a lot better off than I was before and it’s all because I up-leveled my money mindset.

Mindset is everything when it comes to anything, money included. 

Money mindset in particular tends to take mindset work to an entire new level.  We tend to have so many stories, truths, beliefs, and blocks weaved into our money experiences that it often requires special focus.  To be honest, it’s why I decided to put together a special FREE Money Mindset Masterclass for YOU.

I know what it’s like to feel limited by your bank balance and to feel completely stuck in creating the life experience you desire and DESERVE.

Money-MindMasterclass

So, if you could use a Money Mindset adjustment to bring in more cash and open yourself to more abundance in your life, mark your calendar for this THURSDAY August 25th @ 8pm EST. 

This Thursday I’ll be hosting a FREE Money Mindset Masterclass to help you shift your beliefs and stories around money so you can increase the flow of abundance into your life.

In this masterclass I’ll be sharing with you:
 

  • The simple TRUTH about MONEY that will change everything for you
  • The single most POWERFUL belief that will transform your money mindset (and bring you more cash)
  • My all time favorite TOOL for clearing out your old limiting beliefs around money & creating new ones that foster amazing wealth
  • PLUS an amazing exercise that has helped many of my clients attract unexpected income within days!!!

Mindset work isn’t magic, but it will certainly FEEL that way once we start shifting beliefs.

Join me on Thursday August 25th at 8pm EST for this fabulously enlightening masterclass that will change how you THINK & ATTRACT money forever.

And I’m doing this Masterclass a bit different.  Instead of doing the typical webinar style class, I’ll be hosting this masterclass in our very own private Facebook Group.  I’ll be going LIVE at 8pm EST on Thursday and I’ll be available to answer all of your questions & give you a bit of coaching leading up to the event.

Want in?  Join the group HERE.

It’s FREE and is guaranteed to shift how you THINK & ATTRACT money now and forever more, why wouldn’t you want in?