Lamisha Serf-Walls

Mindset 101: Create your new normal.

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photo credit: Napoleon Hill Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve via photopin (license)
photo credit: Napoleon Hill Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve via photopin (license)

 

Yesterday I did a quick talk on Facebook Live regarding this idea of what we deem as ‘normal’ in our lives.

Everyday we experience life around us and we have expectations of what is coming based on past experiences.

The way we deal with money, love, our loved ones, our bosses, our jobs, and other people are all based out of the past.

We expect, react, respond, and play a part based on what we are used to experiencing.

So, it stands to reason that IF we don’t exactly like our external circumstances, then all we need to do is shift what we expect.  I know it seems easier said than done.

But today, I want you to think a bit about what it is you have come to accept as your ‘norm’?  What is a common occurrence that you simply expect because it’s happened so often?

Maybe it’s that you always barely make it to your next paycheck.

Maybe it’s that you always have date the liars and the cheaters.

Maybe it’s that you always lose 10lbs and then gain it right back.

Whatever it is for YOU is simply a reflection of your mindset.

As human beings we tend to stay where it is comfortable, even if it the circumstances seem a bit uncomfortable.  If we are used to barely making it financially and we’ve allowed that to be our comfort zone then we will likely repeat those circumstances.

In order to shift that, we must first shift our mindset and what we expect.

I explain a bit more about how to do just that and how to create and live from your new reality in my live stream from yesterday.  Hop on over and check it out.

If you know you are ready to leave your old expectations and nonsense behind so you can embrace a new expanded life for yourself, I encourage you to check out the Miracle Mindset Immersion Program that starts on July 25th.  Early Bird registration is open now and rates jump by $100 on Monday July 18th.

The cost of giving up…

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photo credit: It's all in the mind via photopin (license)
photo credit: It’s all in the mind via photopin (license)

There have been many times when I’ve thought about giving up, particularly when I couldn’t really see my way forward. 

You see, when I began this path, nothing was certain.

I made a decision to follow my heart and LIVE my purpose and 2 weeks later, I got laid off from my full-time job.

I had no clients, no money, and a dream.

A dream to help empower women to see their true brilliance so they could finally step into their power and LIVE the life they were meant to.

A dream to teach women to listen to their intuition, see and honor their truth so they could go out into the world and make a difference.

I had NO idea how this was going to take shape and while over time it began to get more clear, there were moments I thought of giving up.

But, you see the cost of giving up is much greater than just a hit to my ego.  The cost of giving up effects not just myself and my family, but the world.

The women I could be helping and the people they would then help as an extension from the support I gave them.

You see, it’s all about the ripple effect.

Giving up on my dream means I’m also giving up on yours and every single time I thought about throwing in the towel, I remembered the great cost of giving up.

But…recently I am seeing more and more women settling for ‘what is’ instead of digging deep and doing the work that is needed to move beyond where they are.

I SEE the dreams in their eyes, the inspiration in their soul, and the tired, worn out beliefs they carry with them that are holding them back.

Like heavy baggage, they slowly move forward, if they move at all while most simply settle for this moment, allowing their dream to be just that…a dream.

Let me ask you something…

When did you decide you’d never make it?

When did you decide the life you desire wasn’t meant for you?

When did you decide it would just never happen?

When did you decide that this is as good as it gets for you?

Do you know?

Was it when you got knocked down for a moment or when you thought that one little trial was the sign that THIS wasn’t meant to be?

I’m seeing a whole heap of incredibly talented, intelligent, powerful women throwing in the towel because of their current circumstance.  They’re allowing their current “reality” be the reason they lose hope and give up completely.

But, here’s what they don’t know (or in the least they have forgotten):

What you SEE in front of you is merely a reflection of the beliefs you hold in your mind and in your heart. 

What you SEE in front of you is NOT an indication of what you are able to do unless you give up.

We’ve already talked about the cost of giving up, so why on earth would you allow yourself to give up on your dream, your vision, your desires, AND the very people that need you most???

I think it’s pretty clear that right now we need all the positive change-makers we can get rallying together with their gifts uplifting, inspiring, and supporting others and you are no different.

We NEED your light.

We NEED your power.

We NEED YOU to step up and see what you bring to this amazing world and you can’t do that by thinking that this is as good as it gets!

If you don’t believe better days are ahead, then what’s the point of all of this?

It’s time.

It’s YOUR time.

It’s way PAST time for you to get your mindset together and make a difference not only in YOUR life, but in the lives of the very souls you were put here to change.

So, are you still willing to give up on yourself knowing what it costs?

If not, consider this your invitation to something that will transform your life in ways you never thought possible and set you on a path to BE the woman you know you were meant to be.

It’s the Miracle Mindset Immersion program and it is life-changing, reality-shifting, belief-busting goodness that will change your life for the better and it’s open for Early Bird Registration until 11:59pm on 7/17/2016.  Get all the details about the program and the limited VIP option by clicking the button below.

It’s time!

 

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MOST people aren’t willing to do this…are you?

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photo credit: Sunset Jump via photopin (license)

TRUTH TIME—>

MOST people aren’t willing to do what it takes to make their dreams come true.

I’m not talking about blood, sweat, tears, “hard” work and hours of sleep lost either.

I’m talking about breaking out of the safe, secure, and let’s be honest, a bit too predictable-comfort zones we find ourselves in just before we realize we MUST break free.

You see, most people FEAR the unknown.

I know I did…hell I STILL do!

I’m equally terrified by the thought of big changes and completely stifled when I don’t have enough change.

BUT, I’ve learned to DANCE with it. I’ve learned to get comfortable with the discomfort and TRUST that the path forward will always end up with something amazing, mind-blowing, and soul expanding for ME.

It ALWAYS leads to a greater lesson, bigger purpose, longer-lasting joy and alignment…always.

But it wasn’t always that way.

In fact, the more I fought the idea of change and leaping outside my comfort zone, knowing good and well that is exactly what I needed, the harder it got.

The very foundation upon which my identity was built began to crumble, one brick at a time.

I lost myself, my vision, my safety net and was all of a sudden blessed with this incredible desire that scared the shit out of me.

I was going to change the world and hadn’t the slightest idea HOW or WHY I thought I actually could do something so big.

 

Who the hell did I think I was???

I didn’t think I was anything special and yet, I couldn’t let this feeling go.

I tried to ignore it for years, but you see that’s the thing about your purpose…when it’s your purpose…I mean REALLY your purpose, you can’t hide from it, no matter how hard you try.

So, I had nothing else to do but step into the unknown one inch at a time and trust as much as I could.

NOW…well now taking risks and stepping into the unknown is a bit easier.

It’s definitely still uncomfortable, but now I know the reward that comes from what feels like a huge risk and I know it’s worth it.

The life you desire, the career you crave, the pure joy that you know is possible yet still slightly out of reach—> all of that lies just outside your comfort zone and you must be willing to take the risk to step into the unknown in order to experience the amazing expansion your soul craves.

That’s just how it is.

So…tell me what’s more comfortable for you?

Continuing on the path of certainty and settling for the mediocre experience you’ve grown used to?

OR

Stepping out, with maybe wobbly knees and butterflies in your stomach onto a path that is a risk, but the reward is oh so sweet you can almost taste it now?

I chose the risk.

What do YOU choose?

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Are YOU willing to do what it takes to step out of your comfort zone and into your zone of purpose and genius?

Are YOU ready to stop trying to hide from the inevitable and get on with it already?

Are YOU done settling once and for all and committed to making the rest of your life the absolute best?

If so, hit the button below and let’s connect.

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Consultation

 

If you want it…it’s time to COMMIT!

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photo credit: Leap and the Net Will Appear by Wayne Stratz via photopin (license)

I’m not a ‘hustler’.

Never have been.  But, I often feel an urgency pop up when it comes to my work and life purpose.

An urgency to share my message and shout from every roof top about how we ALL have the power to create whatever kind of life we choose and we are NOT bound by our past or present.

Today is one of those days.

As a business owner early on I thought I needed to ‘convince’ people that they needed what I was offering.  I now realize that’s not my mission.  My mission is to be a messenger, a leader, a truth-seeker and teller to help the people who are READY to dive in and live a life of purpose, passion, and flow do so.

I’m not here to convince you to be happier, to hire me or to anything differently than what you are doing now…UNLESS you are already ready.

And the truth is YOU know who you are right?

  • If you already feel the pull to do something MORE and are asking yourself the question of “Is this all there is to life?  Surely there’s something else.”  You may be that person.
  • If you are finding yourself searching through books, blogs, videos, and courses to find the key to happiness, but maybe you have some butterflies in your stomach about taking the leap.  You may be that person.
  • And if you are reading this and you’ve been feeling the pull to step up, play big, and let your light shine in this world, but maybe aren’t completely sure what’s in your way.  You ARE that person.

For those of you who ARE that person, today is the first day of the rest of your life because you are going to do something (provided you take action today) that will forever change the trajectory and energy of your life.

Today, I want you to COMMIT to that new life, higher vision, new reality, expanded possibility, dream, goal, or opportunity you’ve been thinking about.

I want you to DECIDE it’s happening, it’s yours, it’s done, it’s on the way, and without worrying about the ‘how’, I want you to do 1 thing to support that vision.

It might be that you make a phone call, send an email, pitch a story, research new homes, sign up for a dating site, buy a website domain or something else.

Maybe you decide today is the day you finally schedule a consultation to get some support to transform your life.

Whatever you do today, I want you to COMMIT to the outcome and then take ACTION and then I want you to post a comment below with what your commitment is and what you plan on doing.

Don’t wait around for the ‘perfect’ time when all the pieces are in place because honestly, that typically doesn’t happen until you take the first step.

So, what are you waiting for?

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Feeling STUCK? You may be missing these 2 key ingredients

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photo credit: Had a bad day via photopin (license)

If you’re NOT where you want to be in LIFE you’re likely missing 1 of 2 things…and maybe even BOTH.

There are 2 KEY ingredients to creating the life you desire and they might not be what you think.

It’s not money…

It’s definitely not luck…

It’s not who you know (though in some cases that doesn’t hurt)…

It’s MINDSET & ACTION…

In the work I do, I find that MOST of the women I work with are missing one of the two and there are quite I few who are missing BOTH.

MINDSET—>

If you can’t fathom your life being any better than it currently is…how can you think it will ever change?

If you can’t see your dreams coming true in the best possible way, how in the world are they supposed to?

Not sure it’s ok, acceptable, and you are worthy of living the life you desire?

Then how the hell are you going to ever make it happen?

You HAVE to be in ALIGNMENT mentally with your vision. You have to BELIEVE..TRUST…HAVE FAITH..and keep going!

And you know what trips most people up beyond anything else—->the HOW.

If you struggle with this remember, that’s not your job.

Your job is to CHOOSE your dreams, your new reality and your new normal and step into your reality daily through your mindset practice and when you do that you are half-way there.

You don’t need a map or a blueprint or a step-by-step outline of what you need to do.  The truth is, that would limit you more than you ever realize!

Get your mindset, SET for success, joy, peace, happiness, abundance, and anything you need and desire.  That is the first step!

ACTION—>

This is the OTHER part people often forget that is far more obvious but without the initial MINDSET work…seems impossible.

You don’t have to know the HOW as I said…that’s not your job.

But you DO have to take INSPIRED ACTION toward your vision and TRUST it. Entirely.

Staying paralyzed because you’re afraid you might not make it or maybe you will.

 

Maybe you will fail or maybe you will succeed beyond your wildest imagination and the thought absolutely terrifies you!

<—- FYI: These thoughts will NOT get you to where you are going. —>

 

Fear is going to be there anyway. Might as well make friends with it and the discomfort of expansion too.

When you step into the new reality you want to live, there will be expansion, discomfort, and stretching yourself to achieve the thing you were put here to do…YOUR PURPOSE.

That’s all there is to it and without these 2 incredible pieces of the puzzle…you won’t get anywhere.

 

So where are you on the spectrum?

Got your mindset work in order?

Taking inspired action toward your vision EVERY day?

If so, congratulations you’ve hacked the code and figured out the big ‘secret’ that has so many scratching their heads.  Also know that your success is inevitable.

 

However, if you are missing one or both of the key components above…it’s time for a great, big, massive overhaul of a change and it starts with the button below.

Now, I’ll be the first to tell you that you most certainly don’t NEED a coach to get to where you want to be in life, however if you want to get there faster, some support is definitely the way to go.

 

Hit the button below and let’s talk.

Remember it’s TIME to live the life your soul craves.

The question is…are you ready?

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