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It’s time for a big identity shift. You ready?

Quit “trying” & start deciding instead.

I’ve been hearing a lot of people talking about how they’re “trying” to do their thing. They’re “trying” to start the biz, stay consistent, manifest more money, book their first/next client, show up more frequently, write the book, get in shape etc.

And in that “trying” they’re inadvertently adopting the identity of someone who’s giving themselves permission to NOT do the thing. They’re giving themselves an out. Chances are, you’re doing this too.

When you “try” to do something vs simply DECIDING you’re going to do it (even if you don’t know exactly “how”), you’re playing it safe because…”Well, I tried.”

“Trying” brings about a wishy-washy, not fully in the game energy & identity. It gives you permission to “try” a few good times before you determine it’s a wrap & it just doesn’t work for you. In a way, trying is a cop out.

“Deciding” changes the game entirely because when you “decide” you’re doing something, you bring a different energy.

–> You write the first book like it’s your second in a best-selling 3 part series with raving fans just waiting to buy! 

–> You promote your program like you already have a waitlist of clients dying to get in!

–> You pitch your product to investors like you’ve already got 2 in the pipeline competing for a slice of your incredibly profitable pie. 

When you DECIDE…you show up differently.

You commit to the process in a bigger way, become way more consistent & take radical responsibility for your mindset, energy & identity because you’ve decided it.is.done. Not to mention you 10x your results. 

The people you see living your dream are doing it because they stopped “trying” & instead, they “decided”. 

This one small shift is going to change the game for you & when you clear the mind-drama that has you shying away from fully committing to the program, project or product you want to bring into this world- you’ll be saying what so many of my clients say verbatim. “It’s better than I ever imagined it might be.”

So, what areas of your life have you been just “trying” to shift/change? You really want to make the change?

Decide you’re doing it, starting today. 

P.S. If you really want to super charge that decision, I challenge you to follow it up with a massive action step. Here’s one to get you started. 😉

Stop doing this…

This ONE tip will change your entire life for the better.

It’s time to get embody the goodness that is your life & create MORE in ’24 & the only way to do that is move through the mind drama keeping you stuck & inconsistent.

Get on my calendar & let me show you how EASY it is to stop doing this & to create the new normal that will blow your mind wide open. You in?

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What if you’re just one “yes” away?

Or one client, phone call, email,  sale, direct message or even date?

What if you’re just ONE away from that thing you really want?

What if it’s really THAT close? If you believed that, would you keep going? Keep writing? Keep sharing? Would you keep posting, inviting & offering?

Would you keep believing?

I’ve been following a dancer on TikTok who’s on her 33rd audition of the year in her journey to Broadway…and she’s still showing up.

Even after the instant no’s & the ones that come after a call back.

33 auditions later & she’s still showing up & still going BECAUSE…she’s committed to her dream to dance on Broadway.

More specifically, she’s committed to the version of herself who will be dancing on Broadway one day soon. 

I have no doubt she’s going to make it because she has the tenacity & mindset to keep going.

I have no doubt that YOU will make it too when you get your mindset behind the business, book or project you’re working on this year. The question is…are you committed to the version of you who is most definitely doing it?

She talks about treating her auditions like it’s part of the job (even if she’s not yet getting paid for it) & I feel the same way about  belief.

Your belief IS the work & the path to get to your “more” in ’24 & the truth is you’re closer than you think.

So…keep going/posting/writing/inviting & believing. 

As I shared with a client recently…You can do this. You ARE doing this. Keep going & know that it’s already unfolding. 

Do it like what you’re reaching for is an inevitable fact in the crystal ball of your life. 

It. IS. DONE. 

And…if you’re for the cheat code to double down on your belief & start seeing the physical shifts faster? Hit the link below & let’s talk. 

Get on my calendar & let me show you how.

Your next breakthrough starts here.

Things happen quickly in my world with clients & today’s tip is exactly why. Listen up & play on a loop if you have to. 

Let it be fast.
Let it be easy.
Let it be now.

Let 2024 be the year you finally bet on YOU. 

Get on my calendar & let me show you how.

Happy Monday!

You know mindset is important but are you clear on the beliefs that need tweaking in order to hit your “I did it! I really did that!” moment? 

This question is a great place to start…

Check it out!

I promise, this is NOT a trick question. I challenge you to come up with at least 3 answers & then solve for those things. Meaning, do the work to prove those beliefs wrong & plant new beliefs in their place.  

This is the work & whether you realize it or not, these are the sneaky beliefs that are stopping you from taking the actions necessary to do the damn thing. So, do the work. I know it’s not always fun, but it is ALWAYS worth it.

P.S. Want to fast track your way to overflow & blow your own mind with what you can achieve in 2024? You know the drill. Let’s chat.