A good reminder.
by Lamisha
by Lamisha
A good reminder.
by Lamisha
I forgot how much I love the beauty and smell of fresh flowers until today. Today my partner and I celebrated our 7 year anniversary and I bought her flowers as a gift. I found they were just as much a delight for myself as they were a gift for her. There is something about smelling the wonderful smell of flowers inside the house and bringing a little bit of nature indoors. I love being outside and love the visual beauty that flowers provide, along with distinct, yet subtle aroma as well. And so, today I am so grateful for the beauty and aroma that fresh cut flowers bring.
I am also grateful for spring weather. I am well aware that we are in the midst of winter in various places around the U.S. and many areas have recently experienced blizzard like conditions, however today we were blessed in South Carolina with warmer than normal conditions. As I write this, there is a gentle breeze floating in the window with the distinct smell that reminds me of late spring and early summer. The temperature is just right and reminds me of one of my favorite times of year. For this distinct moment, I am grateful.
I hope you all have a wonderful weekend and enjoy each and every moment. Thanks for reading!
by Lamisha
I normally post two things on Fridays that I am thankful for, but today I am sticking to just one. In light of the horrible tragedy that has happened in Connecticut today, my mind is taken to how grateful I am for my son.
Children are such a blessing and like all parents, I think our little guy is extra special. He is funny, silly, but at times oh so serious. He reminds me to enjoy life, to live in the moment, and not worry so much, except now I must worry about him. Our son is such a gift and I can’t imagine not being able to hear his laugh or hear him say “Momma! What are you doing?” 100 times a day like he does now.
My heart breaks for the parents who lost their children today, but also for the world we live in that has so much violence, children aren’t even safe in schools. I wish for us all to live in a world of peace, supporting, uplifting, and encouraging one another. Not one of anger, deceit, and violence. I want my son to be able to grow up in a world that doesn’t experience such hate and sadness, but instead cooperation and love. And while I can’t change the world all by myself, I can do my part, little by little, day-by-day. And in the midst of all the pain and suffering, I can remember to be grateful for the light, joy, and peace that still exists in this world of ours.
So today I am thankful for the time I get with my son. The sweet moments when he just wants to be close and feel secure. The hugs, kisses, and nights when he just wants to snuggle up and watch a movie with his mommies. For the silly dance parties and tickle fights. For story time, bath time, and play time. For the songs we sing, the games we play, and the meals we share, I am grateful. But most of all I am grateful for the little boy we were blessed with almost 3 years ago. May we never forget how precious life is, and how blessed we are to spend time with our children and loved ones each day.
Tell your loved ones you love them today. Hug them tighter than ever before and pray for peace in the hearts of the parents, teachers, children, and the entire community that was touched by this tragedy today. It is up to us to make a difference in this world. Now is the time.
by Lamisha
This week has certainly been a doozy, with much to do at work and home, both leaving me virtually brain-dead at the end of the day. I must say that I have not been in the best of moods and have found that I have been much more negative than usual. Everyday annoyances are getting to me and I am presented with so many changes at once I’m afraid I am not at my best.
I considered not posting until I was feeling more positive, but I decided that if I am going to be authentic with my writing and share my journey with you, I can’t just share the good stuff. Life ebbs and flows and as I move through it constantly learning and growing, there are bound to be down moments.
This is but one.
This week I have been hit with many changes in my work responsibilities (including more work to do), my work schedule, and new opportunities for my writing. As a person that isn’t best friends with change (especially a lot of change at once), you can imagine the discomfort that I might be feeling. It’s nothing I can’t handle and I am sure I will find a new flow and routine, but right now it’s all a bit much. Somehow accepting that fact makes dealing with it a little bit better.
Instead of complaining about how things are or wishing them to be different, I am accepting it for what it is. Not only that, but I don’t know what these changes could lead to. I am instead allowing the flow of change to occur, (after all there are some things you just can’t change) and instead changing my response. I am not fighting the current. And while I have been drained and just plain tired this week, I know it will pass and I will soon be back to my positive, energetic self.
In the meantime I will look at this moment as an opportunity to learn the lessons of patience, acceptance, and faith. Patience in my journey, acceptance for what is, and faith that all will work out how it is meant to for my highest good (of course not without a bit of action on my part).
That action right now is to take care of my immediate need for rest and relaxation. It means looking at the bright side of the changes and the possible opportunities that can come out of them. (I might actually have time to begin my book!) It means learning to welcome change instead of allowing it to turn my life upside down. It finding balance with the “new”.
But at this very moment it means taking a hot shower, getting into some comfy clothes, and getting a good night’s rest!
by Lamisha
As I continue to do my daily (and weekly) gratitude practices, I am finding not only am I beyond blessed in my life, but I may be taking far too much for granted. I am much better at noticing the little things that make my life easier, more beautiful, and sometimes just plain interesting. I guess you could say I am much more aware of the little joys in life and it allows for a happier disposition over all. Additionally the frustrating things in life (you know like waiting in a long line for 3 hours to vote-type of things) don’t seem as frustrating when you look at all of the wonderful blessings around you. So without further ado, here is my latest installment of gratitude.
This week I am grateful for democracy. With the election this week, my dedication and appreciation of democracy was taken to a whole new level. I have been much more aware and involved with politics this year than ever before and the main reason is because I am thinking beyond my own limited vision of life and future. I am thinking of the life of my son and other children to come. The decisions I make today have an impact on the future of this country and ultimately the life of my children and grandchildren. I was reminded of that this week as I stood in a ridiculously long line to cast my vote. Yes the line was long, and I spent one of the three hours it took me to vote outside in the cold, but all the while I was very aware and thankful to have the opportunity to cast my vote. I was proud to see so many people turn out regardless of who they were voting for, because too often people believe their voice, their vote, and their opinion doesn’t matter. But if you don’t cast your vote, use your voice, etc., then it will never matter. I am both humbled and grateful for the democracy we have in this country and the continued progress we are making. Don’t get me wrong we still have far to go and the system is far from perfect, but we are far better off in many ways than hundreds of countries around the world and for that I am grateful. With a grateful heart for what is, I have high hopes that we will continue to move as a country towards a more united nation with equality for all and that I will live long enough to see it.
I am also grateful for books. I love the adventures, knowledge, and occasional reprieve from everyday life you can get by simply opening the pages of a good book. Not to downplay technology and the new readers that are out there, but I love reading books I can hold and carry with me. In the last two years there hasn’t been a time when I wasn’t in the middle of 2 or 3 books at a time, enjoying every moment of it. It is one of the things I do to escape the stresses of life, to learn and grow as a person, and to relax. There is nothing better than a warm snuggly blanket, rainfall outside, and a good book.
I hope you all have a wonderful weekend and find some down time yourself, no matter how you choose to spend it.