Today I want to talk about a common misconception that has literally popped up in 3 of my last 4 calls, just this week. (And it’s only Wednesday!)
It’s likely a misconception you may have believed or learned along the way & I want to clear it up right here, right now because it’s getting in your way.
The misconception is simply the belief that you can’t have it all.
This is a sneaky little belief that comes in various shapes & sizes. It may not pop up in your mind in those specific words, but it can sound something like…
“I already have so much, who am I to ask for more?”
“Others have so little, I can’t possible want/need/ask for more.”
“I’m spoiled/entitled if I want more than what I have.”
“Wait…can I have that? Are you sure?”
The list goes on.
Let’s be clear…You get to have what you want…period. You can have money, love, career, health, great friends, amazing vacations, success, a published book and your very own pet llama if you desire it. Plus anything else you decide you want.
But…the very fact that you *think* that might be too much, too big or too selfish is part of the reason you don’t have it.
Go back and read that again! The fact that you *think* you can’t have it, is part of the reason, you don’t have it.
The truth is…most of us were not taught about our true creative power in this life.
Many of us were taught to dream big, but really just be grateful for what you receive. Work hard, do your best, but know that whatever life experience you face…it could always be worse. Some of us were even taught to simply settle for slightly more than what our parents achieved, but not much more.
Not to mention the slew of unhelpful messaging you might receive as a woman…you can be a career woman OR great mom, but you most certainly can’t be both. Give, give, give, but never ask for anything in return…that’s not ladylike. Plus a lot of other untrue BS.
Two things I want you to know…
1. That nonsense is only true if you believe it.
2. You were made, created & literally crafted by the Divine for MORE.
You get to have it all, make it happen, call it in, step into flow & design your life.
You get to decide that you are enough right now to take the leap.
You get to choose to BELIEVE that you do get to have it all & then go prove it to yourself.
You get to want what you want & you get to have it too….period. End of story.
But only if/when you choose to believe it.
Part of my purpose on this planet is to empower, enlighten & ignite women all over the world so they can tap into the innate power they (aka you) were born with. You don’t need to “do” anything to activate it other than get all that other mindset nonsense out of the way & that is what I am here to help you do.
So, let us all just take a moment to lean into the innate power we were born with. Choose to believe that you get to have it all. You are a person who gets to be, have & do whatever you choose. It’s time to start LIVING it…BEING it & ALIGNING with it.
And of course if you need help getting out of your own way & doing that for yourself in 2022, I’m here to help. Head over here to learn more about how I can support you.