Can we talk for a moment?
Can we talk about why so many of us shrink ourselves, our goals and our deepest desires instead of going all in on the life we actually want?
Why do we so often reach for what seems more possible and feasible when what we really want is something that feels limitless, irrational and exactly what we were made to do?
Why are we settling for the ho-hum experiences when there is magic to make and miracles to create?
Why are we shrinking our goals to fit the current state of our minds and lives? That’s not how it’s supposed to work.
We were made to stretch our minds, reach new heights, expand our experiences and go out and create that life that we knew we were capable of creating when we came into these bodies.
And the truth is…we all do it, myself included. In fact, I *just* had a “Come to Jesus” meeting with myself in the last week around my own playing small and here is what I found.
We do it because it’s practical. We do it because we don’t want to be disappointed. We do it because what if “they” find out we didn’t reach that big stinkin’ goal…and oh my what would the world think?
What if we fail? What if it doesn’t work? What if we are worse off than before? What if we regret reaching so high for the things that feel outside of the realm of possibility for us?
What if we prove to ourselves that we aren’t capable of doing the big things and being, having and doing whatever we choose? What if it only works for others, but it doesn’t work for us? What if?
But what if we can?
What if by choosing to never go after the *big* things, you convince yourself that you’re only capable of the small things…if anything at all? What if you are more capable than you give yourself credit for?
I don’t know your story. I don’t know your heart or what your deepest desires or your fears are. But, what I do know for sure is that you will never reach that thing you didn’t *decide* to go all in for.
So, maybe it’s time to own it.
Maybe it’s time to own your big, scary– I don’t know how I will ever accomplish that thing or even where to begin- goal/dream/desire.
Then, decide you’re just going to figure it out by BELIEVING you can do it, EMBODYING the vibe that it’s a done deal and then taking the next step and the next.
It’s always up to you to choose.
Choose to own your big goal/dream/desire or don’t, but the absolute worst thing you can do is ride the fence between where you are and where you want to be without ever *deciding* one way or the other. That’s not a life you came here to live.
Decide. Commit. Embody. Create.
That’s the simple breakdown (with a few tiny steps in between).
So, where are you at on the map? Are you owning/choosing where you are, riding the fence or owning/choosing the big amazing life experience you came here for? Decide, then let that be the focus of your week and see what unfolds.
P. S. If you’re looking for quick changes and the short cut to going all in on the life you came here to live, book a FREE 30-Minute Consultation with me. Let’s talk about how I can help you make more money, write the damn book, start the business or you know…whatever else your heart desires by getting out of your own way.
You came here to do big things, so let’s make that happen already yeah?
