I wanted to jump in here and share a quick exercise that will help you get clear on the sneaky limiting belief that might be holding you back from what you actually want.
I want you to think of a specific goal/desire you have that has felt a bit elusive to you & then I want you to answer this question…
Why don’t you want it?
I know…it’s a crazy question because you just said you want it. But, stick with me for a second.
If there were a reason you wouldn’t want it…what would that reason be? Or another way of putting it is what negative impact might you have by reaching/achieving that goal?
Example 1.) You might want to find your life partner so you can finally settle down AND you might not want that because you don’t want to lose your freedom & sense of adventure for the sake of a relationship.
Example 2.) You might want to finally write your book & become a best-selling author AND you might not want that because you don’t want to open yourself up to potential haters or bad reviews.
By not achieving whatever your goal/desire is, you are also protecting yourself from whatever that potentially negative consequence might be for you.
So…why don’t you want it?
Identify your reason(s), then actively & intentionally practice new thoughts about that potential consequence so it’s a non-issue. For instance, you get to have a loving life-partner relationship and still experience more freedom & adventure than ever before…provided you believe that.
Remember…the limiting belief is ONLY true if you believe it AND you get to choose what you believe. Choose wisely.
This exercise alone will help you uncover so many sneaky limiting thoughts & the simple act of intentionally choosing different thoughts, changes everything for the better (& quickly). So, give it a try & let me know what comes up for you.
I promise, you are so much closer to what you want than you think. Tweak those thoughts & get busy doing your thing already.
P.S. This is the work. Your thoughts are the cheat code to creating, achieving & calling in what you want. It’s about damn time you put them to work *for* you. Let’s get to work & I’ll show you how.