Lamisha Serf-Walls

Change is coming…It’s time to step up!

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Can you feel the change that’s in the air?

It’s not necessarily a new feeling, but the changes are definitely feeling much more urgent and powerful these days.

The energy of our world as we know it is shifting in a BIG way and I’m not just talking in the political arena (though how can you miss that right now?).  I’m talking in the hearts and souls of every one of us.

It’s almost as if we are simply fed-up with settling for less than what we deserve and are no longer willing to just go along with the way things have been in the past.

We desire MORE…

More love, connection, passion, healing, support, purpose and compassion.

I’m finding more and more people feeling unsettled with the way things are and who are searching for something else.  Something that at this time they can’t quite put their finger on, but who are feeling called to DO something.

Many are finding the things that used to fulfill them no longer fit the bill and they are on a quest for more.  You may be feeling it too.

Are you finding that what used to feel comfortable, now feels grossly too small for your big dreams, desires, and goals?
 
Do you find your thoughts and desires shifting away from the mundane “stuff” as you focus on something that feels so much bigger than you? 

Maybe you feel a bit scattered with all the things that are catching your attention and while you’re not quite sure what lies ahead…you’re feeling something powerful bubble up from within.

Like a volcano threatening to explode, your inner world is aching to be seen, heard, and understood so you can finally get on with the big stuff.

You might even be feeling a bit bored, frustrated, or just plain confused as to what’s going on.

Let me explain a bit.

You see…where you are right now is in the middle of a major vibration shift.  We are all going through it and are being called to BE who we truly are and to STEP UP into the powerful, purposeful, incredible beings we were created to be.

  • No more excuses, delays, or playing follow the leader.
  • No more waiting for the right time, better time or a time when we have more time.

 

The time to follow your heart is NOW.

I’m not just talking about following your heart to a better career either.  I’m talking about following your heart to do the things you’ve been wanting, needing, and desiring to do for the longest time, but have been too afraid.

It’s way past time for us to be honest with ourselves and to own that incredible power that lies within to MAKE our lives (and even bigger our WORLD) the incredible, healing, powerful, compassionate, love-filled space that we came here to build.

For some of us that means doing the deep emotional work to clear the baggage that has up to now caused us to feel like that kind of change (purpose, prosperity, leadership and showing up) was meant for other people but surely not us.

For others it means stripping away all of excuses, fears, inadequacies, and the noise of the inner gremlins in order to tune into that quiet urging deep within that has been trying to get your attention.

One thing that is true for ALL of us is this…

Expansion is inevitable.

You get to decide how you’re going to handle the coming breakthroughs.

Are you going to lean into them, ask for support when you need it, and enjoy the ride?

Or

Are you going to hold onto the discomfort of the past while the expansion takes you away kicking and screaming.

The choice is always yours.  Believe me, in the time I’ve been doing this work, I’ve experienced both and leaning in is a far better choice.

Is it challenging at times?  Yes.

But when you immerse yourself in the peace that comes from finally listening to the call of your soul, you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner.

It’s like coming back home to the entire Universe that lives within you.

It’s powerful, majestic, and it feels so good!

So, let me ask you.  Have you been feeling the changes coming, but haven’t been sure what to do with them?

If you’ve been feeling sick and tired of being sick and tired of the same old cycles repeating themselves in your life then YOU my friend are ready for change. 

You probably already knew that and you’ve been feeling it deep within your soul for awhile, but the question is…what steps have you taken?

If you’re not sure what steps to take or you feel stuck in a rut (and have been for awhile) then it may be time to reach out for assistance.

I’m working on some new ways for you to work with me this summer so I can help more people get through this transformation with as much ease and support as possible.  Incidentally, I’m also doing a bit of research to find out what YOU need the most support with so I can customize programs to fit those needs.

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If support is what you need and you want to chat about how I can support you on your path forward AND (this is a big one)…you are ready to COMMIT to the process, then hit the link below and let’s get you scheduled for a chat.

I look forward to chatting with you my friend!

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7 Things I’m Afraid to Tell You…

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photo credit: Elf-8 Non no nej via photopin (license)

 

A few years ago, I came across a blog post by another coach titled “Things I’m Afraid to Tell You”. 

At this point, I can’t remember who that was, but I was intrigued by the concept and shared a few things with my tribe that I too was afraid to share and today I’m doing it again.

It’s always incredibly important to me that I be 100% honest and real with you because after all, I am only human.  You may read some of these and find that I am no longer a coach you want to follow or find that I am exactly the kind of coach you want to be a part of your life.  Either way, I know it’s all for the best.

So, without further ado (and more procrastinating) here we go!

  • I just pulled the plug on the 60-Day Momentum Mastermind.  – You know that new blended program I put together and announced last week that was supposed to begin on Monday?  Yep, I pulled the plug.  The truth is, it was something I have been wanting to do for a long time (create a blended program), but something didn’t feel quite right about it.  So, instead of trying to revive it in some way, I’m pulling the plug.  There is a part of me that is slightly embarrassed, yet also incredibly relieved about it because it frees up a bit more time for me to do something else. (More on that soon.)
  • I’m afraid of what you think of me.  There are times when I really overthink what I want to say to you because my intention is never to offend you or rock the boat.  There are times when I wonder if I’m “selling” too much and creating too many offers and I wonder what you might think of me because of it.  (On a deep level, I guess I just want to be liked.)  But, then I remember why I am in business to begin with.  I love what I do (most of the time) and if I am creating offers (or pulling the plug) there is a very good reason for it and who am I to keep that from YOU, especially if it’s something that could help you?  This is also the reason I was hesitant to share an article I wrote on race that was recently published on ElephantJournal.
  • Sometimes I get bored with my business.  Now let me be clear, I am NEVER bored with the people I work with…ever.  But, there have been times (ahem-recently) when I have felt a bit bored with myself and my business.  I am the type of person that likes to shake things up and get really excited about new things I am offering in general and if it’s feeling a bit stagnant, my inspiration goes down the tubes and I have to regroup and reset myself.  The truth is, I’ve been feeling that way for a bit now and I’m just itching to bring in some fresh new energy to shake things up.  (Again, more on that later.) To be clear, I LOVE what I do, I love who I work with, but sometimes I don’t love the way I do things, so I have a need to switch it up.
  • Sometimes I don’t feel like “enough”.  When my mind-gremlins start kicking up, I get so stuck in my head about things that I start believing the crappy thoughts that come up and I feel like I’m not enough.  Not smart enough, strong enough, clear enough, good enough, blah, blah, blah.  Most recently, I felt like I wasn’t a good enough mother.  I’m human.  Sometimes these are quiet thoughts in the back of my mind and other times they can take me to my knees and make me cry uncle, but I always come out the other side stronger, because I know that this is just another part of the up-leveling process for me.
  • I am a lesbian.  I realize that many of you know this about me already and it shouldn’t even be a “thing”.  I get that, but I’d be lying to you if I told you that even after being ‘out’ for close to 15 years now (plus being married to the woman of my dreams and having a family too) that there isn’t a part of me that worries what other people might think of me because of this fact.  I also realize that for some people, this is an utter and total deal-breaker.  (There is an unsubscribe button at the bottom of this email, should this be a deal-breaker for you.  No hard feelings at all and I wish you all the love in the world.) Moving on…
  • I am a card-carrying (not really) woo-woo coach & intuitive.  All this means is that I am deeply in touch with my intuition (something we all have) and I am able to feel into the circumstances, energy, and “stuff” that clients have going on pretty easily.  It’s my super-power an while it’s not something I try to explain (and to be honest, most of my clients don’t really ask) it’s 100% how I work.  I also often use oracle cards with clients and occasionally will offer to do readings for people if that’s something they are into.  (If that’s something you’re interested in let me know because I LOVE doing them.). The truth is, all of this spiritual and “woo-woo” stuff makes me the coach I am and it helps me, help you.
  • Sometimes, life gets the best of me.  Basically what that means is that there are times when I need to retreat, regroup, rehash, revive, and refresh my mind so I can show up and be the best for you.  It is often accompanied by general shit going on in my personal world (like this past month my wife had surgery, Mercury Retro gave me a run for my money, and I was totally off of my mindset practice.) that takes me off track.  For the most part, I don’t like to share too much of that with you because, well-who likes to talk about that stuff?  I mean, it’s the stuff that makes me relate-able, and human I suppose, but it’s just not fun to share.  That, and part of me doesn’t want you to think less of me because of it.  (I’m also a recovering, perfectionist.)

So, I guess that’s it for this round and honestly it wasn’t as bad as I thought it might be.  I expect there may be some people who leave my tribe because of one or more of what I listed above and to you I wish you all the best.

For those of you who are sticking around-I’m so happy for you to be here!  Stay tuned because the next email you receive from me is SO exciting and you don’t want to miss it!!!

P.P.S. If you LOVE being a part of my tribe and you’ve been wanting to work with me 1:1 (and you aren’t currently), hit reply to this email OR sign up for a free 30-minute consultation and I’ll give you the inside scoop on this very-super-secret-squirrel-crazy thing I’m cooking up that I’ll be announcing to the public in a few days.

Do the dirty work…

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photo credit: via photopin (license)

 

When it comes to doing mindset work, it’s a two pronged process.

MOST people know it as “thinking happy thoughts” and “being more positive”, but that only lasts a little while before the mindset gremlins jump in and attack all the positive thinking you’ve been doing.

You see, most people don’t think about doing the dirty work of mindset transformation.

Digging into the old, worn out, sabotaging beliefs that are holding you back.  They forget they are there and think that they can simply cover them with more positive thoughts to balance things out.

That’s simply not true.

In order to transform your life, you have to be willing to do the dirty work.

The digging. The uncovering. The illuminating.

Often times just giving those thoughts and gremlins a voice, you can weaken their power over you and your path.  By simply recognizing them, you open up the awareness to begin the shift.

The true shifts occur as you realize the ONLY reason your old beliefs were true is because you BELIEVED them.

So, what if you believed something else?

What if you could step into a new reality and believe the exact opposite of what you believe now?

What would that look like for you?

It would look like a new life, new reality, and new experiences born seemingly instantly.  It would appear as though your new reality was manifesting before your very eyes and the only way to keep it that way is to reprogram your beliefs to EXPECT this new reality to remain normal for you.

You can’t shift beliefs you don’t know you have.

  • If you are having money issues (not enough, lots of debt etc.) then you must look at what you think and believe about money.
  • If you are having issues with love and relationships (cheating partners, always feeling lonely etc.) then you must look at what you think and believe about love and relationships.

You can’t change what you are unaware of so doing the dirty work of mindset transformation is KEY.

Have you done it lately?

If you are reading this, you probably haven’t because it’s uncomfortable and scary.  No one willingly goes into the dark cave to excavate the sleeping bears and bats do they?

They do if they want to create a new space filled with light, love, and joy.

Has your mindset work consisted mostly of “thinking happy thoughts” and “being more positive?”

If so, you likely aren’t seeing huge shifts in your life.  Unless you are willing to do the knitty gritty work that comes with mindset transformation, you aren’t going to see lasting changes in your life.

BUT…if you are brave enough to do the dirty work AND the light work then you will see instant shifts in your life.

If you’ve never done mindset work and you are completely fed up with being and feeling stuck in a rut then I invite you to join us for the Miracle Mindset Immersion program.

This program is designed to not only do the dirty work of mindset transformation, but it also allows you to develop a mindset that is life giving, supportive for your new reality.  Through this 4 week program you will uncover, delete, disprove and transform your beliefs in ways you never thought possible, but beyond that you will begin to see instant shifts in your current reality and that is priceless.

The program begins on Monday and I’ve just added an extended payment option that makes it an easy yes. So what do you say?  Are you in?

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Call to ACTION—>No more hiding…

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Consider this your official call to action: It’s time to stop hiding once and for all!

You know it, I know it, and so your intuition knows it, but something, SOMETHING is stopping you in your tracks every time you even consider stepping out and honoring your truth.

Maybe it’s fear.

Maybe it’s the question of what others might think of you.

Maybe it’s your mind playing tricks on you as it lists out all the magnificent things that could go wrong!

Maybe it’s that gut-wrenching, tummy-twisting, knot in the stomach that says—It’s not SAFE to be me!

And yet…you know.

You know it’s way past time for you to step out and step up so you can let your magnificent, beautiful light shine so you can FULLY be YOU.

I’m talking embracing ALL of YOU.

Your strengths, quirks, power, passions, and joy for life.

It’s time…the world NEEDS you, your light, your passion, purpose, and mission.

It.Is.TIME.

Now, if you are reading this you may know without a shadow of a doubt that it’s time to stop hiding, but you aren’t quite sure HOW to step out, step up, and to fully stand in your power.

You may have doubts that it is possible.

You may not even know what you are passionate about.

And you may be so bound by the cycle of thoughts in your mind that keep you stuck, stagnant, and down right paralyzed that you don’t even know where to begin.

This message is for YOU.

FREE Mindset Assessment

If you are hiding your light, not honoring your truth, and not standing in your power but you KNOW you are ready to up-level your life and move beyond your comfort zone, I encourage you to take a good hard look at your mindset and belief system.

Your thoughts create your experience.

Your beliefs are the very things dictate how you respond, react, and stand out in the world and if you are hiding…it’s time for some mindset work.

The first step is to identify where your thoughts and beliefs are now so you can begin to shift them.  One way to do that is to sign up for my free 30-Minute Mindset Assessment.

In that call we will come together and identify 1-2 beliefs that are currently holding you back and how you can begin shifting it to support your vision and you can stop hiding and start embracing your inner truth.

It’s time to stop hiding once and for all.  The world needs you to step up and step into your power.  In fact, your happiness depends on it.

Schedule FREE 30-Minute Mindset Assessment

If you want it…it’s time to COMMIT!

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photo credit: Leap and the Net Will Appear by Wayne Stratz via photopin (license)

I’m not a ‘hustler’.

Never have been.  But, I often feel an urgency pop up when it comes to my work and life purpose.

An urgency to share my message and shout from every roof top about how we ALL have the power to create whatever kind of life we choose and we are NOT bound by our past or present.

Today is one of those days.

As a business owner early on I thought I needed to ‘convince’ people that they needed what I was offering.  I now realize that’s not my mission.  My mission is to be a messenger, a leader, a truth-seeker and teller to help the people who are READY to dive in and live a life of purpose, passion, and flow do so.

I’m not here to convince you to be happier, to hire me or to anything differently than what you are doing now…UNLESS you are already ready.

And the truth is YOU know who you are right?

  • If you already feel the pull to do something MORE and are asking yourself the question of “Is this all there is to life?  Surely there’s something else.”  You may be that person.
  • If you are finding yourself searching through books, blogs, videos, and courses to find the key to happiness, but maybe you have some butterflies in your stomach about taking the leap.  You may be that person.
  • And if you are reading this and you’ve been feeling the pull to step up, play big, and let your light shine in this world, but maybe aren’t completely sure what’s in your way.  You ARE that person.

For those of you who ARE that person, today is the first day of the rest of your life because you are going to do something (provided you take action today) that will forever change the trajectory and energy of your life.

Today, I want you to COMMIT to that new life, higher vision, new reality, expanded possibility, dream, goal, or opportunity you’ve been thinking about.

I want you to DECIDE it’s happening, it’s yours, it’s done, it’s on the way, and without worrying about the ‘how’, I want you to do 1 thing to support that vision.

It might be that you make a phone call, send an email, pitch a story, research new homes, sign up for a dating site, buy a website domain or something else.

Maybe you decide today is the day you finally schedule a consultation to get some support to transform your life.

Whatever you do today, I want you to COMMIT to the outcome and then take ACTION and then I want you to post a comment below with what your commitment is and what you plan on doing.

Don’t wait around for the ‘perfect’ time when all the pieces are in place because honestly, that typically doesn’t happen until you take the first step.

So, what are you waiting for?

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