When I talk about living the life of your dreams, it comes with a certain spark and twinkle about what may be. Having a beautiful life full of amazing people, love, abundance, joy, and for me a career that I adore doing what I love. But, something I don’t often talk about is the not so sparkly stuff…you know the ‘life’ stuff.
I may have set up a pre-conceived notion that when you finally attain the life of your dreams then life is nothing but rainbows and sunshine. That money flows, your health is amazing, and your love life-well it’s better than ever before. And while yes that may be part of your story, it’s not all made up of rainbows and sunshine.
The truth is…shit happens.
I was reminded of this fact just last week.
My internet was down, my modem died, my dryer wasn’t working properly, and I ended up late to a client appointment because I mis-read my schedule…all on the same day.
The old me would have pitched a fit, complained, and made an annoying situation even worse by turning it into a bad day.
The new-growing-living-and-learning-me responded differently.
I handled all of the glitches with as much ease as I could and then I took the rest of the day off.
I like to think that I am living the life of my dreams. I am doing work I love, from home, and I have a beautiful family that I love with all my heart. Sure I have new goals and big things I want to accomplish this year and I know I will, but for now, I’m happy.
The difference between my pre-dream life living and now is that I used to allow my outer circumstances dictate how I think and feel about everything.
I am growing in that way because now I don’t do that nearly as often. Sure, there are times when I forget and have a moment or two where my vision is blurred and I react as opposed to respond to life, but I am still learning.
So, why am I telling you all this?
I’m telling you because there are SO many wonderful changes that come with living the life of your dreams aside from the ‘stuff’. Your mental shifts are worth more than the money, the house, the car, the job etc. Your mental shifts are incidentally what help you create the life of your dreams and help you when shit happens afterward.
In addition to ‘having it all’, you will:
- Learn to respond to life in a loving way
- Enjoy life so much more even with the ups and downs
- Know that when shit happens, it doesn’t last forever
- Be the example for others to do the same
And when I think back to those very important details about living this life, I find them to be far more valuable than the ‘stuff’.
There is so much to be gained in living the life of your dreams and if you aren’t currently living a life you love, what are you willing to change?
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