Have you ever had one of those moments in your life where you look back and can almost pinpoint the exact moment when things shifted for you? It’s like that decision, choice or moment in time was a pivotal moment where everything after, was changed forever more?
I had one of those moments last week as I was hit with a HUGE (and in some ways surprising) realization that I was doing something that I am constantly coaching my clients through, just about every day.
I realized that for the past 2-3 years or so, I’ve been playing, thinking, & living in a very small way when it comes to my life & business.
Now, to be fair, I’ve actually had a few mini-realizations like this in the past year or so and have made small shifts to step up, but none of them have been as big or hit me as hard as this one. This realization literally brought me to my knees – ugly crying and all.
After a conversation with my wife about our vision for the future, I was hit with the realization that somewhere along the line I’d allowed my big dreams to get clouded by what I *thought* were reasons I couldn’t or wasn’t ready to move to the next level in my business, income, & life. It turns out those “reasons” they were indeed just excuses. 🤐
Excuses that I allowed myself to hide behind (for years) because they were “real” and “true” in my life.
Yes, I’m a mother, wife, and entrepreneur and balancing those roles can often be challenging. I guess over the years, I allowed the challenging seasons to evolve into an ever-lasting belief that maybe I can’t be, have and do it all. Maybe, I only get to be the best at one of those roles & I have to choose which one is most important.
The truth is…that’s just a bunch of BS that I allowed myself to believe because it was *easy* and comfortable. (Yes, even coaches are continuing to learn along the way.)
So, what did I do? Well, after a big purge of some pretty shitty judgements and emotions, I reminded myself that with every upheaval comes an opportunity to up-level and I get to choose again.
I get to rewrite the story of my beliefs around who I am and how I show up in the world. I’m not a one-trick pony who only gets to be good at one thing. I actually *can* have it all and it’s about time I remember that and practice it on a daily basis.
So, I’m getting back to the basics of what I teach. I’m spending time each day digging into my next-level mindset and living, breathing and being from that place. I’m also tapping back into what I know to be true for all of us and that is…
We get to be, have, and do whatever we desire & believe!
No more excuses.
No more “reasons”.
No more hiding.
No more limitations.
That part of the story is over.
It’s time to step into that version of ourselves who knows how magical life can be. The part of us that knows that we get to want what we want and we get to have it too. It’s time.
In just over a week that I’ve been really embracing this new level & getting back to basics, I’ve been hit with some pretty incredible inspiration for new things I’ll be creating & sharing with you in May so stay tuned for that. (I’m so excited because I promise it is *so* good!)
In the meantime, I am going to be sharing some of my next-level tips, tools and strategies in the MindPower Membership group on Facebook for the month of May in addition to the weekly journal prompts, group readings, live trainings, open coaching calls + access to all of the content/trainings from April and the best part is you get to *pay what you want* for the month of May. Feel free to join us here.
With that said, I hope you know that wherever you are on this journey, you always have a choice to change the story. As a coach, I choose to share the good, the bad, and the ugly with you because it’s a normal part of the process & I hope to inspire you to continue to choose again.
As Abraham-Hicks says “You can’t get it wrong and you never get it done.”
Keep going friends. This is just the beginning of an incredible new-level for us all and I can’t wait to see what unfolds in May.
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